April Newsletter

Upcoming Lobella Events:

Reclaim Your Essence
June 9-13
The Platinum Hotel
Las Vegas, Nevada
$995 non-Lobella Members
$795 Lobella members


Reclaim Your Health
November 9-14
St George Utah
Red Mountain Spa

$1995 includes hotel, meals, speakers and activities

Just for Moms
Wynn Hotel
May 14 (reception) event is 15 and 16

$395 non-Lobella members
$295 Lobella members

To learn more about upcoming events, please visit our events page:
http://lobella.com/events-facilitators.htm

 

April Tuneup
Loren Slocum

Welcome to our April newsletter!  Spring is in the air and It’s giving me the kick I need to get started on all the different projects I’ve been dreaming up!  What challenges will you conquer this spring?

I always think of spring as a time to move forward and gain momentum.  Winter can allow us to be lazy and lethargic, but the fresh spring air, beautiful trees and shining sun give me the motivation I need to get going.  This spring I am working on spreading the word about eating healthier and planning for my June Lobella event in Vegas – Lobella Reclaim Your Essence.  It will be an amazing event with fabulous speakers, I cannot wait and I hope to see you there!

I hope this newsletter inspires you to eat more healthfully, get more sleep, work toward your vision and go for your goals!

Stay true,
Loren


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Communications Tuneup
Mary "Eeeenergy" Garcia, Los Angeles, CA

Worthiness, A Garment to be Worn!

Mother Teresa said, "First, I am to love myself rightly, and then to love my neighbor like that."  So often we believe that when we achieve this goal or attain that possession, we will then become worthy.  Worthiness, however, is a choice and when we choose to wear it and live it, our dreams become so much more attainable.  Wear worthiness like an honor, like a right....wear worthiness like a garment.  No one can take this gift from you.  First we wear worthiness and then we step into our dream.

Reasons you are worthy:

Because you are alive and all life is sacred.
Because you are connected to the Divine and when we love God’s creations we love ourselves.
Because we are beautiful, more beautiful then our children are to us, are we to our creator.
Because God has bestowed unique gifts to each of us and we allow those gifts to shine and impact others.

Why are we worthy?  Because we were born!

So love yourself freely and find yourself loving others more deeply.  Wear the royal garment of worthiness like a sovereign!




Relationship Tuneup

Susan Baker, Highlands Ranch, CO

This month’s newsletter theme is about keeping the momentum going in your life.  When it comes to your relationships I think that it is important to get back to basics in order to keep your relationship moving in a positive direction.  One of the most important things to keep your relationship moving in a positive direction is to give your relationship time.
Sometimes, we get lost in all the things we have to do in our busy lives and forget to make spending time together a priority.  This can be especially true if you have been in a relationship for many years.  To keep your intimate relationship moving forward I challenge you to pick something off the following list and try it out this month: 

  • Have a date night each week that is not negotiable.  You will go no matter what!
  • You and your partner should both sit down and write a list of things that make you feel good.  Trade lists and then pick one thing off the list to do for your partner during the week.
  • Write your partner a heartfelt note and tuck it in their briefcase, suitcase or car to find during the week.
  • Plan something to do with your partner that he/she likes to do.
  • Initiate some action in the bedroom- this usually makes your Man feel great!  
  • Each write a list of your ideal date nights, trade lists and each of you pick an activity to do together off the others list.
Have fun getting back to basics and remember that sometimes you have to step back to spring forward!
 

Friendship Tuneup
Carrie Kish, Valencia, CA

You Are Greater Than Your Circumstances


Listen up!  Life happens!  The only people who don’t have problems are dead people.  I guess they had some problems that got them dead, but they aren’t really suffering them any more.  I don’t mean to be callous, just direct.

We have this distorted idea that happiness is a destination and that life shouldn’t be so hard.  I know I get caught up in that.  Every time I think my life couldn’t possibly get any harder, it does.  Mother Teresa said, “I know God will never give me more than I can handle.  Sometimes, I just wish he didn’t trust me so much.”  Well, I hear ya sister!
Some people think that happy people are happy because they are lucky, rich, thin, in a good marriage, have perfect kids, are successful, etc.  But, those are just circumstances.  Happy people are happy because they choose to be happy.  They realize that no matter what is going on in their life, that they can overcome it, learn from it, bear it or just plain be with it AND find some things to be happy about at the same time.

You are not your circumstances!  You are you and your circumstances are your circumstances.  Put them back into perspective and remember that you ARE greater than your circumstances and act accordingly!




Fashion Tuneup
Stephanie Jackson, Bainbridge Island, WA Facilitator

Well Lobella Ladies, I just got back a few weeks ago from our Lobella Reclaim Your Life Event in Vegas and I have to say it was one of our best events ever! From the amazing speakers we had that weekend to the ladies who participated it truly was an honor to be apart of and I am excited for the future of Lobella.

With that said, I met an amazing women named Liana Chaouli who is an Image Stylist who spoke to the group. She gave us all some amazing fashion tips to take home with us and I would love to share a few with you this month!

Liana asked us "If it is possible to change our lives through changing the way we dress?" She reminded us that the clothes we choose to wear reveal how we perceive ourselves and how we wish others to perceive us.

One of the tips that stood out for me that weekend was that Black is not a color, it is the absence of color and it truly is a barrier making us seem unapproachable and intimidating. I have made a conscious effort to wear more color at least at my face level and it has proven to really work and make a difference on how I was perceived by people.  On the days I wear color people are more likely to approach me with compliments and/or are just happy to talk and engage with me. Just a small "tune-up" like that has made a wonderful difference.

Liana also said our TOP color we should wear is our eye color and also our hair color (our REAL hair color!), again both make us seem more approachable and trustworthy to others. Test these few things out and see the response you get, you never know how these small changes could get you everything you want! That job, that man, etc.!
 
Till next month continue to "stay true to yourself" and be the light in the world!



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Disposition Tuneup
Nitti, San Diego, CA


This week in particular has been one of many of life's hard and true tests for a few close friends. From the loss of a loved one, loss of job, divorce and the upsetting news from a doctor to an athlete that they may never run again.

All of these circumstances are extremely devastating in their own way and will forever change the course of these individuals’ lives and how they have had been building and keeping momentum going.

Don't we all have something in our life that has changed our daily life unexpectedly? It may not have shown up as dramatically as one of the above examples but it still threw us 'off course'.

These 'set backs' can show up as both positive (even harder to identify as something setting us off course) and negative elements.

Here are a few examples:

*       Cheating on a diet
*       Missing out on a few workouts
*       Fighting or arguing with a friend or spouse
*       Taking on a new job or change of schedule

Regardless of how these have shown up in your life, we all choose how we are going to allow the 'set back' to affect our lives. Will we blame, hate, mistrust, hide, justify? Ask yourself how you have reacted in the past when you have lost momentum. What did you let it mean? Identify it so when this shows up again for you, you can break this pattern and not allow yourself to let more time go by before you realize you're off track.

Are you refocusing and rearranging your goals immediately so you don't lose momentum or are you blaming, hating, justifying and letting unnecessary time go by?

Just because you may be paddling instead of running doesn't mean you've lost momentum, it just means the vehicle has changed.

A friend shared with me a fantastic motivational quote that I try to keep in mind whenever life throws anything at me, big or small: “momentum is far easier to maintain than it is to regenerate."

With that in mind, when a challenge comes your way don’t allow yourself to give up, just keep on moving!
 

Recipe Tuneup
Carly Maxwell, Grants Pass, OR Facilitator

If you have spring fever and want to keep up your energy try this Blueberry Bliss!!!

Ingredients:
1c blueberries frozen or fresh.
1c fresh spinach
1-2 scoops protein powder
1/2 c or 3/4 c water or milk.
A few ice cubes

Blend and pour into glasses. This is great in a hurry when you need a fruit and a veggie and the kids like the purple color.

Enjoy spring it’s beautiful and bursting with color and life!




Parenting Tuneup
Danielle Lansburgh, Miami, FL Facilitator

Make it Happen!

Spring forward through hosting a vision board party with your kids and friends!

Simply gather magazines, poster board, glue, scissors and allow your party to follow their dreams by cutting and pasting all their wants and desires.  Then place vision/dream board on a wall where the creator will be able to see it everyday. Subconsciously their visions will become their reality. You can find all the details on vision boards in Loren's Life Tuneups book which you can purchase at your local bookstore or on Amazon.  It is so fun to watch the "magic" and works for parents and kids! Go for it

 



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Expert Tuneup
Tamara Sachs M.D.


Sleep

The average night's sleep in the industrialized world has decreased since the beginning of the last century, from 9 hours to 7.5 hours or less. Some of us have tried giving up sleep in order to make room for more work and leisure. A bad mistake, I assure you, there are few quicker ways to damage your metabolism than by burning the candle at both ends. An appropriate amount of sleep is just as important to your wellbeing as proper nutrition and exercise. You can live longer without food than you can without sleep, and while the effects on the body of each type of deprivation are very different both are very serious.

As a matter of fact, a chronic lack of adequate sleep is associated with a prolonged stress response, weight gain, diabetes, muscle pain, fibromyalgia, accelerated aging, multiple hormonal imbalances, depression, anxiety, difficulty concentrating, memory loss, just to name a few. Alarmingly, such damage may be only partially reversible. At the extreme, people predictably go insane if they are not allowed to sleep at all for several days on end. Is sleep beginning to seem less optional?

Sleep a Waste of Time?

Although sleep may appear to some to be a monumental waste of time, there is actually a great deal of important activity going on in your body. During sleep, your brain does not have to process massive amounts of visual, auditory, and tactile stimulation and intellectual information. It is therefore able to rest, which allows the re-allocation of the huge amount of energy generally used for consciousness. Healing of all kinds therefore takes place mostly during sleep: recuperation from illness, repair of physical injuries, as well as regular daily wear and tear to the body. Detoxification and biotransformation, emotional healing, spiritual or energetic healing also take place primarily during sleep.

While most cells have some detoxification capabilities, the liver is the major organ of detoxification. One of the liver’s main tasks is to take toxins from the circulation and transform them from fat soluble, charged toxins to safer, water soluble compounds that can then be eliminated via bile, stool, urine, sweat, and breath. You guessed it. The bulk of this work occurs at night, during sleep.

Not surprisingly, the biochemistry and physiology of the resting body at night differ from those of the active body during the day. Many critical nighttime functions will not occur at any other time. For example, melatonin is made from serotonin during the night and seems very dependent on darkness, among other things. If you miss the unique chance at night to make melatonin, you must wait until the next night’s sleep to try to produce it again. That is not only a problem in regards to the sleep function itself, but also has profound consequences for other cell functions. For example, melatonin is important in cancer prevention.

 Lack of Sleep Related to Diabetes?

Researchers have shown that just one week of sleep deprivation altered subjects’ hormone levels and their capacity to metabolize carbohydrates. Granted, people who trade sleep for work or play may get used to it and feel less fatigued over time, but the health costs are high. During sleep-deprivation, the researchers found that the male participants’ blood sugar levels took 40% longer to drop following a high-carbohydrate meal, compared with the sleep-recovery period. The ability to secrete and respond to the hormone insulin, which helps to regulate blood sugar, dropped by 30% in this study. These changes echo the effects of insulin resistance, a precursor to type 2 diabetes. In addition, the sleep-deprived men had higher nighttime concentrations of the hormone cortisol, which also helps regulate blood sugar, and lower levels of thyroid-stimulating hormone.

The raised cortisol levels mimic levels that are often seen in older people, and may be involved in age-related insulin resistance and memory loss. In this study, subjects' blood sugar and hormone concentrations were restored after the sleep-recovery period, but it is unclear at what point this restoration may cease to occur or how long it may take. Also, these were healthy volunteers; some of us are not so lucky!

Sleep debts cause a certain type of physiologic stress. Most sleep-deprivation research has focused on what it does to the brain, but it is obvious that sleep has many functions. Muscle pain, joint pain, general malaise, and exacerbation of chronic injuries or health conditions are common with a lack of adequate sleep of only one or two nights, and especially as we get older.

Healing requires sleep. There are no exceptions to this rule.

Not sleeping is a serious problem and it must be addressed in order to be healthy. If you think you snore, if you wake with a headache frequently and /or have excessive daytime sleepiness, you may need a sleep study to rule out sleep apnea. If you wake up restless or anxious in the middle of the night, you are probably experiencing low blood sugar and should try having a small healthy snack before bed.

Occasional insomnia happens to many of us, but if restful sleep eludes you most of the time, find a holistic healthcare professional to help you find the cause and the remedy.

Sweet dreams to all!